You might find your current boss is like a pair of 5 year old Levis jeans that sag and reveal your ass crack when they shouldn’t. But just try a new boss like you try a new restaurant. Doesn’t mean you need to change employers. Hard to think negative trash talk when your brain is teleported into hypnosis through great guitar playing or thumping house beats. Because we’ve all got a few leftovers from childhood clogging up our brains. Getting professional help doesn’t make you weak. God knows we all need some after coroni-macaroni and the Donald Duck presidential crisis. Photo by Bobby Johnson on Unsplash Step 15 While you’re at it, buy coffee for everybody behind you in the line at Starbucks or. Other cultures won’t look so bloody foreign and weird, too. You’ll realize it’s not the answer, but it will give you perspective. It secretly holds them back and makes them sound overly negative. Too many people have too much hatred buried deep. Forgiving people for no reason at all reduces your mental load. While you’re at it, forgive that high school bully from all those years ago. It’s a superpower when you get good at it. Say sorry to the innocent person you abused on the internet. It’ll solve nothing but until you do it, you may not realize it. Step 9īlame a random on the internet for your problems. I took a job in a call center on minimum wage. But an entry-level job makes you humble again. As we advance in our careers, prestige starts to become our default. Skip this step if you have a hearing aid (like me) or are likely to become so drunk you call your mother and say something nasty. Maybe something from your past is what you want to do in the future and you just didn’t realize it. Those memories will help you decide what to do in the future. Go back and listen to the music you grew up with. Revealing the hidden hacks goes against our nature. We all want to look like overnight successes. No one shares their competitive advantages. For all you know, Monica got further ahead in life than you because daddy’s trust fund bankrolled her through all the rejection. Stop comparing where your life is at to others. Plus the endorphins that get released into your bloodstream afterwards help you to chill the heck out. Just get your body moving because everything else in life seems to progress when you do. No need to become Rocky or flex in front of Rex. A messy desk is a mind f*ck for your mental clarity. Writing is how you place information in your brain and inject the wisdom deep so it can get used when needed. Not to show off, but to document what you’re learning. You’ll realize meaningless roots aren’t the answer to your problems. Root like a rabbit as they say in Australia. Whether right now is a terrible time in your life or not, or whether you’re seeking to head in a new direction, here’s what I do to change the course of my life (takes about a year to see results). When every day starts to feel the same and blend into one another, I hit the emergency button. No matter how hard you try, life will eventually take a wrong term.įor me, boredom and a lack of emotion are huge red flags.
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